Where I've Been Part II

(Warning: Baby Loss/Stillbirth)

June 6, 2020

Today I'm going to write a post about where I've been for the last year. In April of 2019 we conceived our son, Jack, and I had an interesting experience in pregnancy which I think I will break-down in multiple posts to share my experiences in greater detail. A few topics I want to cover are PTSD, Maternal Instinct, Anencephaly, Stillbirth at 22 weeks gestation, baby loss and all of the ripple-effects that it has had on me as a mother. I'm also hoping to update more often, especially as I feel more up to discussing these topics since Jack passed away, and also because I am currently 22 weeks pregnant with our rainbow baby- during a global pandemic of course.

I hope to really focus on the Canadian birth experience, stories from myself and other mothers, particularly diverse voices during the very important Black Lives Matter movement. I'm hoping to shine a light on typical and atypical Canadian prenatal and postpartum care and will hopefully be able to provide a resource for Canadian women and parents, as so much is written from a U.S/U.K perspective and I feel as though there could be more of a focus on our Canadian care and experience.

For anyone returning, thank you for being patient with me.

And for the new readers, thank you for joining and becoming a part of my experience with motherhood. I hope I am able to share the stories of many others in the future to provide a resource I feel is missing for Canadian women.

Megan

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